Want to try something kinky and intense in the bedroom? Do you like powerful sensations on your most delicate of parts? If you answered yes to either question, then you might be interested in learning about cock and ball torture (CBT). CBT is a form of sexual play that focuses on the genitals, creating sensations of pain or restriction.
There are many kinds of CBT techniques, some using specific kinds of equipment, such as ropes, clamps, or weights. The penis and testicles can be very sensitive areas, so it's essential to know the basics of safety before you try it out.
What is cock and ball torture?
Basically, it's a BDSM or kink activity involving sensation play focused on the genitals. Cock and ball torture involves a person (often the top, or Dominant) manipulating, binding, or striking their play partners genitals (the bottom, or submissive). It can involve many sensations, from gentle pressure to high levels of pain.
Cock and ball torture is a creative kink, and there are many ways to create sensation for your partner. Here are a few examples...
Testicle crushing and ball busting
This kind of play involves stomping on or crushing the 'family jewels', aka the testicles. This is often done during a foot fetish session, where the testicles are trampled or kicked with bare feet or high-heeled shoes.
CBT impact play
Some people enjoy the sensation of being whipped or spanked on the cock and balls. This is sometimes combined with bondage, so that the genitals are exposed for easy access.
Wax play on the genitals
Hot wax is a popular form of BDSM play. But have you considered taking that candle down south? As with all wax play, it's important to choose the correct type of candle, and test it beforehand to make sure it's not too hot. You should have a first aid kit, fire extinguisher, a cold or wet cloth, and running water close by. Check out this guide from Kink Academy to get started.
Urethra play and sounding
'Urethral sounding' means inserting objects into the urethral passage. This technique is considered advanced, due to the risk of injury and infection. For those with the expertise, specialised 'urethral sounds' are available from some BDSM suppliers, but it’s important to know what you’re doing! Find workshops with experts local to you or online, ask experienced members of your kink community, visit a BDSM professional for lessons, and learn as much as you can about the practise of sounding, the risks, and aseptic technique to ensure your play is as safe as possible.
Cock and ball bondage
Like other kinds of bondage, cock and ball bondage can be a lot of fun and produce plenty of interesting sensations for the recipient. Using rope, other kinds of soft ties, or specialised cuffs, it's possible to restrict or restrain either the penis, or testicles, or both. Cock and ball bondage can be used as a part of a CBT scene, to make predicament bondage more interesting, as a form of chastity play, or to help your bottom feel bound and submissive.
Testicle cuffs, cages and cock rings
Devices such as cock rings (which are often worn to prolong erections or increase sexual pleasure) can also be used as CBT toys. As we mentioned above, you can also buy specialised restraints, cages and cuffs that are designed to fit the genitals. Make sure you read up on how to use these devices to make your play safer and more fun!
Clamping, play piercing, and other kinds of enjoyable torture
There are so many ways to produce interesting or painful sensations during CBT! Applying clamps or crushers can make your partner squirm or squeal. More experienced kinksters may enjoy play piercing the scrotum, but it’s important to make sure you know what you’re doing before trying this kind of advanced technique!
Cock and ball torture safety: what you need to know
Now that you have the info on CBT, you may be keen to jump in and start experimenting. But read this first! The genitals can be a very sensitive area, and some CBT activities have the potential to cause serious damage to your nether regions. Cock and ball torture is NOT for everyone. If you're considering trying it out, make sure you understand the risks involved.
The good news is that the cock and balls can take a fair amount of punishment, so here are a few tips for getting started with as much safety as possible.
Safety rule #1: Plan your CBT scene beforehand
A surprise isn't always a good thing when it comes to BDSM. Managing your risk means knowing exactly what activities you're going to try, to what intensity, and what you'll do if things go wrong. Making a careful, detailed plan with your kink play partner is the first essential step for a successful cock and ball torture scene. Make sure you negotiate your limits with your partner, whether giving or receiving CBT.
Safety rule #2: Use safe words at all times
Safe words – code words you or your partner can use to stop play – are essential when practising CBT. For some kinds of BDSM scenes, 'stop' is an obvious safe word, but sometimes your partner might want to protest as part of the fun! You might want to use 'red', 'safe word', or something totally unrelated (‘pumpkin spice!’), so that your CBT bottom can struggle and beg for mercy, while still having a word to stop or pause the scene at any time if they feel overwhelmed, uncomfortable, or if they’ve reached their limit.
Safety rule #3: Start slow and build the intensity
Here's another useful tip that seems obvious, but is often overlooked. Many enthusiastic CBT kinksters are so keen to try it that they rush in, attempting advanced forms of play and more extreme levels of pain right away. This can lead to unexpected damage, or simply the unpleasant experience of exceeding your own pain tolerance. You need to discover your body's limits by easing into it and then increasing intensity gradually.
Safety rule #4: Playing hard? Choose an experienced partner
We don't judge or kink-shame here! Whether you prefer a gentle session or consider yourself a hardcore CBT submissive, the way you play is valid, but for those activities that are considered more risky, it's essential to work with an experienced top or Dominant.
For this reason, many CBT enthusiasts seek out professional Mistresses or Dominatrices who have been trained in this specific kind of scene. You could also approach someone from your kink community who has this experience. Either way, be sure to ask, "Have you done this before? How confident do you feel about CBT?"
Safety rule #5: Seek medical attention if necessary
This kind of kink play carries certain risks and if something goes wrong, make sure you attend to the issue. BDSM is NOT an endurance sport! If your CBT session becomes less 'enjoyably painful' and more 'worryingly painful', you must speak up. If you suspect you've injured the family jewels, it's essential to stop play immediately, remove any toys or bindings (using safety scissors if necessary) and visit your doctor or your local Emergency department, if the injury is more concerning. Be sure to tell your medical professionals everything – it will help you to get the assistance you need faster and may prevent further injury. Trust us, they’ve heard it all and are generally more interested in giving you the correct care than judging you for your sexy preferences.
Are you ready for some CBT adventures?
Some sexual adventurers might wince at the thought of having their testicles flogged or kicked or squished, but if it makes you curious, why not give it a try? With a sound grasp of the safety basics, you're well prepared to experiment with cock binding, ball crushing, hot wax, and all the other fun scenarios cock and ball torture has to offer. Just remember to start slow, communicate well, and play with experienced people that you trust.
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