Considering a professional BDSM provider for a foot worship session? Maybe you've already dabbled in foot worship and foot fetish play with partners, but would like to find someone who can really make your kinky foot fantasies come true...
Whether you're into toe sucking, massage, or simply appreciate feet and shoes, spending time with a kinky escort or professional Dominatrix can be an excellent way to experience all that foot fetish has to offer. Let's take a look at the services provided by pro Dommes, Mistresses, and fetish escorts, so that you can choose the right professional.
What is foot worship?
What is foot worship? Simply put, it's a sexual or kink activity that involves one person (the bottom or submissive) appreciating the feet of another (often called the dominant or top). This appreciation takes many forms – from kissing the feet or sucking the toes, to foot massage, and pedicures.
Where a foot fetishist may simply focus on feet, shoes, or stockings as a source of sexual arousal, a foot worship enthusiast enjoys taking a submissive role and showing their devotion to the feet of their dominant.
Why choose a professional provider for foot worship?
Many foot worship fans enjoy these activities with partners or at kink events, but some also choose to see BDSM professionals. A professional provider is someone with thorough knowledge of many forms of kinky play. In return for an agreed fee, they provide a session according to your specifications.
Some BDSM experts work in professional dungeons. Others might work from home, or visit you at your home or hotel. Many BDSM workers don't provide sexual intercourse, and what you get up to will depend on the person you see.
Types of foot fetish professionals
Let's talk about different kinds of providers, so you can decide who is right for you.
Professional dungeons
When people talk about Dominatrixes, they often picture a person in latex and high heels, working in a dark space filled with whips and chains.
Professional dungeons are establishments where a number of workers offer their services. They are staffed by a range of people with different skills. Although many wear fetish costumes, you'll encounter a variety of dress styles. Professionals who work in dungeons have training in kink, often undertaking apprenticeships that last for many years.
Independent Dominatrixes or pro Dom/Dommes
Instead of working at one establishment, many kink professionals work independently, advertising themselves online or via social media. They might work from their own space or visit their clients at home.
An independent worker offers flexibility, and are ideal if you want someone to come to you! But unlike professional dungeons, there's no apprenticeship program for new dominants, so it's important to ensure they're experienced.
Fetish escorts
A fetish escort is a sex worker who specialises in kink – someone who provides escort and kink-related services. Fetish escorts often work from their own space (what's known as an 'incall') or can travel to visit you at your home or hotel (an 'outcall'.)
Fetish escorts are popular because they often include traditional sexual services as part of their kink sessions. However, this isn't guaranteed and you will need to discuss it with your provider.
How to choose the best provider for your foot fetish session
A BDSM provider can make all your foot worship fantasies come true, but you need to know how to find and approach a pro. Many people rush in before they're ready, or say and do things that mean they're turned down by providers. Worse yet, some clients might end up with someone who isn't experienced with foot fetish. Here's how to choose a professional that suits your needs.
Make sure you're ready
Even if you're full of enthusiasm for the sexy foot fetish sessions you want to have, it's still important to make sure you're ready to actually meet a professional. Contacting a pro before you're ready will make you look unreliable and you might be turned away. Here are a few questions to ask yourself:
- "Am I comfortable paying a professional?" Many people have negative views about sex work, or shame around paying for a sexual service (even kink). These feelings can ruin your session. So it's important to get comfortable with the idea first.
- "Can I afford a session?" Seeing a kink provider will cost you, and prices vary depending on your location, the kinds of services you want, and the person you approach. Make sure you have the money first!
- "Can I communicate well?" Arranging a safe and satisfying session means asking for what you want and being honest about your level of experience. You'll need to use a safe word (a code word that stops play). You'll also need to listen to your provider and follow their instructions.
Search online for foot fetish providers
The next step is to search online for kink professionals to find someone who can offer you a great foot fetish session.
Many dungeons, pro Dommes and kinky escorts have their own websites. Some promote themselves on specialist advertising websites such as the popular escort site Tryst. You might be able to ask for local recommendations in kink forums for your town or city, or on social media sites such as Fetlife and Reddit.
Do your research before you decide
Many people simply contact the first Dominatrix they find online. But if you want a good experience, it's essential to do your research first. Are they experienced in your kink? Are they interested in (and enthusiastic about) foot fetishism? Read their website and social media profiles. Note how they like to be contacted, their rates, and when they're available. An experienced pro will expect you to know all this before reaching out – don't waste their time by asking for details that are already available online
Be organised and polite when you contact a provider
When you do get in touch, remember to be polite and respectful. Although kink providers are offering a sexual (or sexy) kind of service, they 're really just like any other kind of professional. Sending nude selfies or dirty talk will usually lead to immediate refusal. Keep your messages short and polite, and provide all the specific information about yourself (your name, age, location, level of experience, etc) that they need in order to decide whether to take you on as a client.
The perfect foot worship session for you!
If you're a foot worship enthusiast, a professional BDSM provider such as a Master, Mistress or fetish escort can provide you with a session that fulfills all your foot fetish fantasies. When you reach out to a pro, it's essential to know what kind of provider suits you best, do your research, and behave politely and respectfully. Once you do this, you'll be on your way to foot worship heaven.
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